I moved my desk from its spot in the front window. So, when
I lift my eyes, I don’t see my friend – the wordless evangelist -- a neighbor’s
oak tree that has helped me mark the seasons the past five years we have lived
here. (A
Wordless Evangelist) I stepped outside and noted that its leaves have not
turned – they still are a rich green, unlike other trees, which border our
home, are dropping leaves, branches and acorns all over the back yard.
Seeing brown leaves falling over red geraniums still
blooming in the wonderful cooler days we have been enjoying is odd. What is
odder is I did not kill the geraniums this year – I followed the directions for
these cheery beauties, bred for Texas heat, and did not over water them.
Coming cold weather this week may expedite the evangelist’s
change, and the geraniums’ demise. Time to get the pansies in before the dirt in the "edited"
flowerpots becomes cold and uncooperative.
This fall my father’s youngest brother died. Thomas
Francis Williams lived to be 100. As he aged, he never became cold or uncooperative –
and he had more than one reason to be bitter or cantankerous – he fought
cancer, Guillain-Barr Syndrome and macular degeneration. He lived in a nursing
home -- He lost his loving wife seven years ago. While his world grew more restricted, insular, lonely he was
unfailingly happy to hear from my brother or me – he never made a secret that
he cherished his daughters. I
believe I saw the fruit of a century’s worth of cultivation in the midst of
severe pruning.
It’s never too late to work now on the person I hope to
become. Tom Williams modeled what Paul Newman preached – if you have a pulse, you have a purpose.
May God teach us to number our days, to invest the time we
have left time in worthwhile work, and pleasure – and confirm the work of our
hands, confirm the work. (Psalm
90)
Do not regret growing older. It is
a privilege denied to many. ~Author Unknown
1 comment:
Amen to your thoughts about your Uncle Tom Williams. He indeed stayed green and full of life like a great tree into his old age. His heart was - and is - filled with kindness, and I'm sure he fits in wonderfully in his new home.
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